Monday, September 8th, 2025 (Private/Zoom)
Participants: Jean-Baptiste (Araili), Julie (Fontine), Debbie (Tamarra)
Title: The Reality Game
“We are here to play with you, to help you discover the different ways that have been dormant in your reality to play this game, and to realize that you don’t have to all play the same games.”
Topics:
Agenda of the Fah’ra
The balance between challenge, pause and fulfillment
Roles in the game (changers, comforter, supporters…)
Changing one’s filters and other Perception Tools
Trust and Exploration
What we could say is that we are here to play with you, to help you (pause) discover the different ways that have been dormant in your reality to play this game, to help you realize that the games you have set up and played for so long already, can be changed, and that you don’t have to all play the same games. And you can also play different games at the same time, just like chess masters can play with different or several opponents at the same time.
You have that ability, and you have that creativity to blend and to (pause) connect together all your games. Now, for the people who are new to these kind of interactions, we are essence personalities that are (pause) exploring, similarly as you are, physical realities, and we have been generating an agreement with Jean-Baptiste and some of you to generate that support and answer your questions about your reality, how YOU can play, what kind of rules would better suit you in this game that you have chosen, and especially now in this transition where you are starting to, just like your reptiles, shedding your old skins, your old structures, starting to realize that you are more than what you have been told or what you have thought until now.
And also, most importantly of all, we are not just here to give you words or concepts, but we are here to encourage you or nudge you to put it into practice. Whatever the concept, the philosophy, the structure, we are going to challenge you to see how it fits together, or how you can morph it into something different if that is what you want to do. Because, sometimes you want interludes into your games to just shake out the extra energy that you have been building into your body, into your bones or cells; and playing a different game can help you make your favorite game not become so serious and generate tension about it. You need balance, you need to understand your own pace also; [do] not try to rush and to follow others; just see how they fit into your game instead of how you can fit into theirs. Because, that’s how it works. Do you want to expand on some of the points we have been expressing?
You need constant challenges that will help you explore your limits, that will help you build up your strength, develop or expand your knowledge; and, also generate that genuine connection. As you learn how to look at yourself without filters, you will also learn to look at others without filters and see how you are the same and how the differences allow you to also move beyond what you think of yourselves, what you believe about yourselves. And, maybe also inspire you in certain directions that your comfort zone would not have helped you become aware of, or would have prevented you from exploring. Of course, not everyone wants to change or shift the rules often. But, they will learn how to choose the ones that are for their utmost fulfillment in one moment, that will allow them to generate that environment and surround themselves with the people that will match with these configurations, these patterns of relationships, of sexuality, of emotional connections, as well as listening to their own communications more. And, they may want to share similar rules with their community, and that is also what will generate the contrast, the stability, the comfort of the familiar, and give those who are leaning more in the direction of continuous change that extra support, that they can rest, regenerate in these comfortable places or environments with the people who are expressing that.
Just like before you go on a hike or climbing your big mountain, you want to prepare and rest and get all your food for the road. These will be the people who will provide them, and they will infuse that food with that knowing of interconnectedness, of support, of nourishment, and of home. Now, what would you two say, what directions would you say you are leaning towards at the moment?
Right.
And I want to sometimes retreat into that supporter role, but I feel that that’s more of a reaction to the unfamiliarity of being in this position. I feel I have a knowing of it that I could slip that sleeve on. So I think right now I’m just moving to trust myself.
And that’s why I’m even creating some turbulence with my safe partner, you know, and going, oh, okay, let me not think about this. How can I support him in comfort? And I’m really going, no, I’m creating that as a opportunity to either pull back into safety and safety positions or acknowledge and be a beacon, bring us both forward and let him make his choices as well.
But it’s about that trust, because I can sense it, using these new tools to step in a position for me, at least as Debbie, and this focus is not that familiar. And I’m okay. I’m addressing to what’s, I’ll say, interfering, what I’m throwing on top of me to be safe, throwing all the blankets on top of me.
I’m going, okay, I’m fine. I’m just going to continue to be supportive and be that shadow role. And for some reason, all these blankets fly away, and here I am again, standing there naked, or so it seems. Hahaha.
But this is very comforting. I love the mountain analogy. And it’s for me, to sum it up, would be to maybe leave a group or groups of familiarity, or I’ll call it roles or positions, and step into a new role.
And I am supported, and I love that you have answered our call, you and Jib, to participate in our pyramid, to really bring that home as the next starting point. For all of us.
And sometimes, explorers like to go in dark places, or in the underground world. And you bring new information, and you bring knowledge for others to assimilate, or get inspired by, even if they won’t do the journey on their own. And as your position, as the bridge, you also have both in line, or in the cross, so to speak, because you will need to continue to expand and explore and discover new aspects and bring in new information that will help change things.
And you also have to be that stable structure that will allow people to cross to the other side of this shift. In a way, it is also an energy exchange from the old structures, the old familiar way to generate your experiences and your explorations, your gains, your structures, your traditions, into a more connected way of doing things, of looking at things, and you will be more aware of your choices, even if some people continue to choose similarly. So yes, take your time, move at your own pace, both of you build your strength, and we can also say that to Jean Baptiste, he saw how the body may respond and create some manifestations quite easily when the energy is too strong, or when he tries too hard to please and do what he’s told.
And as we said, climbing the mountain necessitates a period of preparation, physically, mentally. You also need to get as much information as you can from either people who know, or your intuition, or other sources such as us, or your other friends.
And, we wanted to add something, that we are not going to give you truths or absolutes. Sometimes we are also going to give you what you need to hear to help you change perspective or change your filters, make you realize the numerous pairs of glasses that you are wearing that are weighing on your nose and blurring your sight, or the muffled pieces you have on your ears.
But we are not that mischievous, and we also know how to be gentle. Do you have any questions?
And so I’m working on that as an essay. But, I realize it translates to life and to lucid waking, and these are tools that we can use anywhere. One of my tools, I would say, for changing my filter is to just go, I call it like an essence reset, where I just, I don’t like what’s happening, I just want to go back into my raw naked awareness, free of anything, just empty of time, space, everything, but that’s only for a short while, short few seconds to reset into my original state of being, my natural state, and then look at the world again with new eyes.
So that’s like a little tool that I have, and I can use that. I have used it in the psychedelic experience, and I use it a lot in life. So is that similar to like one of your little changing filters that you’re talking about?
There is also that important part of building your trust in what you are doing, in the directions you want to explore. So your essence reset practice is very strong and very apropos.
Are you understanding?
It doesn’t have to be looking the same, but it will be connected. And the more you practice with that, the more you will learn to pick in your imagination the qualities that you want to insert in your physical projection. Just like in a food store, or in an ice cream store, you can pick different flavors and make your own ice cream.
That will help you also become more hungry [for] your own projection.
And then it’s almost natural to just start seeing it everywhere.
Each choice you make gives momentum to your exploration, to your direction, makes it stronger, more massive even, more attractive to what you are looking for.
So it’s a balance between what is generating that fun in this moment or what is giving you that experience of fun in this moment and how you are moving, because you’re always moving, and the faster you vibrate, so to speak, the faster it can change. But remember that you can also vibrate faster, but create that experience of stillness and eternity in a moment. People outside will experience you moving faster.
You may experience you not moving at all. (pause) We may stop here for today.